Why You Don't Need to Be Exceptional

7m 47s2019-07-24N/A
Personal DevelopmentMental Wellbeing

Many people feel they must be extraordinary to be worthy, often due to childhood experiences where parents needed them to achieve for their own self-worth. This can lead to constant overachievement or shame. Sometimes, a mental breakdown can be a hidden attempt to force self-understanding and well-being. Society often promotes grand achievements, making ordinary lives seem worthless. However, true success and happiness can be found in simple, quiet lives, like raising children, maintaining relationships, and doing everyday tasks responsibly, rather than constantly seeking external validation or fame.

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CovertlyC2Adverb

Done in a secret or hidden way, often with the intention of not being noticed.

Examples:

  • The spy covertly exchanged the documents under the table.
  • She covertly observed her competitor's new product launch.
  • He covertly slipped the note into her bag when she wasn't looking.
SlackC2Noun

Lacking in activity, diligence, or rigor; not taut or firm.

Examples:

  • The team's performance became slack after they secured the championship.
  • The rope went slack, and the climber nearly fell.
  • During the off-season, many businesses experience a period of slack demand.
CohortC2Noun

A group of people banded together or treated as a group.

Examples:

  • The new cohort of students began their orientation program today.
  • He presented his research findings to a cohort of esteemed colleagues.
  • The study followed the same cohort of participants over several decades.
LikemindedC2Adjective

Having similar opinions, tastes, or interests.

Examples:

  • She found a group of likeminded individuals who shared her passion for astronomy.
  • The conference attracted likeminded professionals eager to collaborate.
  • It's refreshing to discuss ideas with likeminded friends who understand your perspective.
ResponsiblyC2Adverb

In a way that shows good judgment and care; in an accountable or ethical manner.

Examples:

  • It's important to use natural resources responsibly to protect the environment.
  • He managed the project budget responsibly, ensuring all expenses were justified.
  • Drivers must act responsibly on the road to ensure everyone's safety.
MalfunctionC2Noun

A failure to function normally or in a desired manner.

Examples:

  • The software malfunction caused the system to crash unexpectedly.
  • A minor malfunction in the engine delayed the flight.
  • The machine's sudden malfunction brought the entire production line to a halt.
BestsellingC2Noun

Having sold in very large numbers.

Examples:

  • Her latest novel quickly became a bestselling sensation.
  • The artist's new album achieved bestselling status within weeks of its release.
  • He dreams of writing a bestselling book that will inspire millions.
InarticulateC2Adjective

Unable to express one's ideas or feelings clearly or fluently.

Examples:

  • He became inarticulate with emotion when trying to express his gratitude.
  • Despite her brilliant ideas, she was often inarticulate when speaking in public.
  • His inarticulate response left the audience confused about his true intentions.
AlternatelyC2Adverb

By turns; one after the other.

Examples:

  • The traffic flowed alternately, with one lane moving then the other.
  • She felt alternately hopeful and discouraged about the outcome.
  • The lights on the emergency vehicle flashed alternately red and blue.
RebukingC2Verb (gerund/present participle)

Expressing sharp disapproval or criticism of someone because of their behavior or actions.

Examples:

  • The coach was rebuking the player for their lack of effort during the game.
  • She found herself rebuking her younger brother for his disrespectful comments.
  • The manager was rebuking the team for missing the deadline.
IncoherentlyC2Adverb

In a way that is unclear, illogical, or difficult to understand.

Examples:

  • After the accident, he spoke incoherently, unable to form complete sentences.
  • She mumbled incoherently, making it impossible to grasp what she was trying to say.
  • The witness described the event incoherently, confusing the investigators.
SuccumbingC2Verb (gerund/present participle)

Failing to resist pressure, temptation, or some other negative force.

Examples:

  • Despite his strong will, he found himself succumbing to the temptation of the dessert.
  • Many people are succumbing to the stress of modern life.
  • The old bridge was succumbing to the relentless erosion of the river.
WellbeingC2Noun

The state of being comfortable, healthy, or happy.

Examples:

  • Regular exercise is crucial for a person's physical and mental wellbeing.
  • The company prioritizes the wellbeing of its employees through various programs.
  • She dedicated her life to promoting the wellbeing of underprivileged children.
GlitteringC2Verb (gerund/present participle)

Shining with a shimmering or sparkling light; impressively successful or attractive.

Examples:

  • The city skyline was a glittering display of lights at night.
  • She had a glittering career in the entertainment industry.
  • The ballroom was filled with guests in glittering gowns and suits.
SecludedC2Adjective

Not seen or visited by many people; sheltered and private.

Examples:

  • They chose a secluded cabin in the mountains for their quiet getaway.
  • The artist worked in a secluded studio, away from distractions.
  • The secluded beach offered a perfect escape from the bustling city.
AristocratsC2Noun (plural)

People belonging to the highest class in certain societies, typically holding hereditary titles or offices.

Examples:

  • The ball was attended by aristocrats from across Europe.
  • Historically, aristocrats often held significant political and economic power.
  • The old manor house was once home to a family of wealthy aristocrats.
BatheticC2Adjective

Producing an unintentional effect of anticlimax or sentimentality when attempting to achieve grandeur or pathos.

Examples:

  • The play ended with a bathetic scene that undermined its earlier dramatic intensity.
  • His attempt at a profound speech fell flat, becoming rather bathetic.
  • The overly dramatic music made the emotional scene feel unintentionally bathetic.
MetropolisC2Noun

The capital or chief city of a country or region.

Examples:

  • New York City is a bustling metropolis, attracting people from all over the world.
  • He moved to the metropolis in search of better career opportunities.
  • The ancient metropolis was once a center of trade and culture.
MellownessC2Noun

A state of being pleasantly smooth or soft; a gentle and agreeable quality.

Examples:

  • The mellowness of the aged cheese was delightful.
  • He appreciated the mellowness of her voice as she sang a lullaby.
  • The autumn evening had a certain mellowness that invited relaxation.
MediocrityC2Noun

The quality or state of being mediocre; not very good.

Examples:

  • She refused to accept mediocrity in her work, always striving for excellence.
  • The restaurant's menu was a testament to culinary mediocrity.
  • He feared that his life would be defined by mediocrity rather than achievement.